WHY KILL YOURSELF?

Why kill yourself?
A COWARD DIES MANY TIMES BEFORE HIS DEATH BUT THE REAL COWARD IS THE ONE WHO TAKES HIS LIFE; BY PRINCESSWEALTH ADEGBITE.
When you wake up from your slumber to see the storm of life rising beyond your control, with its fingers wrapped around you and there’s non to help, thoughts will sure come running in acting as that hidden strength which you never knew existed, but then one thought is all you need to get help or to go with the storm, how then can you recognize the true voice of help?
The voice of help within, will always whisper with a soft, tender and yet firm question, asking “why kill yourself”? but because this voice comes from the soul deep within the mind, even if it screams your ear is become deafened by the loud screaming of the body which is directly influenced by the world and its polluted air where all manner of negativity keeps flying from one zone to another attracting more and more of weird wicked happenings to it, all of that clusters, chanting and banging is way too loud for you to hear the quiet voice of solace and peace within screaming at its peak, why kill yourself?
We can run, run very far from our weaknesses and problem, but the truth still remains, that those problems awaits us even in death, what you left unsolved hangs on to your soul and spirit for you are solely the architect of your life, remember your soul lives on, that you cannot kill nor cage, its free as a bird pending divine judgment. Ever tried dodging a task? You did all that is within your power to avoid it, but then every corner you turn, you find that same task right in front of you as a reminder of what you must do, there are tasks that we can never run from, and one of such task is living, yes! Living is a task that is right there and will always be each day you awake, you owe yourself to live, problems are mere ingredients of life, the more you conquer them the sweeter and more meaningful life becomes to you, just like the condiment, some are sweet, some bitter and others soured while some have got no taste nor significance at all, but the truth be told, the bitters ones are healthier and of great benefit to us all.
We are creative beings with dominion, we are able to use our mind and head to think, figure out great solutions to the world’s problems, what on earth will make you less unique? Less human or less creative? Nothing but you and you alone, so why squeeze life out of yourself for problems that you are capable of solving, solving by giving it time, for time heals all wound and restores all that is lost, you can shut out the voice of the world by opening yourself up to your soul and spirit, you are a god and deep within you, greatness, strength, wealth and all you need to thrive lies there awaiting your visitation, why take your life? When you aren’t even sure of where that will lead you, there’s no victory in death, no happiness nor joy, nor great friends there, you are only left with the works of your heart, mind, body and soul, even your body sure deserts you returning to its abode the sands, your spirit wanders off to some place pending judgment. My dear! You owe yourself to live.
She screamed aaaaah, over my dead body will I let her take my boyfriend, she ran so fast that people around couldn’t catch up with her, she had the energy of a tiger and was ready to prove to the people she loved her boyfriend to stupor, well! Her action was only that of foolery as she was swift and quick to swallow every drop of poisonous liquid in the bottle behind their house, after that she smiled saying, now he knows he can never dump me, ho ho ! She was rushed to the hospital but before she could be attended to, she had given up the ghost, maybe to hunt the living boy, whom at the time had no idea what had happened or maybe she didn’t know her action was capable of taking her life, the answer to that I do not know, but one thing is clear, the boy is alive and definitely married to some Lady who stayed brave enough despite heartbreaks to be alive. Did she fight a good fight?
He walked out of his office sweating profusely, his thoughts ran far and wide, all negatives that one couldn’t dare imagine was all that dominated his mind, my job gone, the house must be vacated, my wife has threatened to leave, the kids I can no longer take care of, as their mum said to me this morning, “Tade, these two children don’t belong to you, so they will have to go with me once I am set to leave your house and that will be today before you get back from work” hmmm
Life gets a bit unfair sometimes right?
But the truth is, whatever comes to one, is what such one is capable of handling, you are greater, stronger and able to handle life failures and betrayals, if first you take your eyes off the situation and problem, fixing it on the supernatural, that greater power which is GOD, in every situation and time, HE is right there with you “for yee are gods cos yee are sons and daughters of God”. Tade knew that because he had great relationship with his creator and didn’t see prayer as a sheer waste of time nor as the effect of placebo in medicine, but recognized prayer as a means of communication with the great I AM THAT IAM, knowing that within the I am, is he Tade hidden, therefore when the whole world comes crumbling down on him, he has got a greater shoulder to weather the storms of life, throwing them to the abyss for the one within is far too stronger.
Tade got into his car, turned on the ignition and began to blast the Steve Crown’s song titled “you are great”. He sang so loud with tears in his eyes, that passer bys were wondering what could be wrong; some assumed he won a jackpot others just nodded in pity and walked on. He arrived home to meet an empty house with a letter on the center table saying.
Dear Tade,
Sorry it had to end this way, you are a great guy, wonderful father and a good husband, but my secret had been hunting me for years, reason I decided to leave your house and life today, the kids belong to your boss, you remember how I use to go to him to plead for your employment, one thing led to another and we began to date. I am very sorry and I wish you all the best, as for the company house, you can be there pending when you get somewhere else to stay.
Your ex-wife.
Hmmm, all he heard was an explosion, a bomb or something like that went off in his head, he fell to the ground and wept, where have I gone wrong? But my dear, at times, one doesn’t have to go wrong for things to go upside down, there are things we as human cannot explain, like someone betraying you, you never have control over how people choose to treat you, but you do have full control how you respond to treatment dished out to you by others.
He cried and began to speak in tongues, he spoke till the tongues wouldn’t move again, it is over, I have lost all, what then is left, why live? He asked himself but then a voice whispered saying why kill yourself? Yes, why take your precious life because of someone who saw no good in you? Someone who betrayed your trust and broke the marital vow you held so strong, someone who doesn’t care one bit about you? She obviously let you to die and the only true and sure victory will be for you to live, the voice beckoned on him to get up, wipe your tears, go to your parents, pastor or good friends, go air your feelings, cry if you must but then live above what pulled you down.
Tade listened to the good voice, he knew he had more goodies ahead of him, he got up and mixed with great minds, some felt genuinely concerned and some didn’t, but in the end, he got a good and better job, he met a pretty, god fearing lady and they fell in love, Tade is no married with 4 kids, double twins this time he got a DNA confirmation. Lol .
His past is gone and totally wiped off because he chose to listen to the good voice, many who commit suicide die just before their breakthrough and manifestation because to them its totally over even before it begins. Be like Tade, live above your fears and sorrow!
That divorce is not the end of the world.
That setback is only but an opportunity for a comeback.
That layoff is not the end but a fresh opening for you to explore the world of success.
If they don’t like you, know it’s because you have got something they don’t have, not because you are a no-good.
Whenever you find yourself in the midst of those who don’t like you, my dear be brave enough to let them be, walk away for there are loads of people who love you and are eagerly waiting for your manifestation.
In case you need a friend send me a friend request: Princesswealth Uchechukwu ; Facebook or email prinno82271@gmail.com.
NEVER CONTEMPLATE KILLING YOUSELF,NEVER EVER TALK DOWN ANYONE AS YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY MIGHT BE GOING THROUGH. LIVE YOUR LIVE, IRRESPECTIVE OF WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH, IT’S ONLY A PHASE THAT WILL SOON PASS. GOD BLESS YOU.

sisters are diamonds

Sisters are diamonds

It takes a thousand years,
To form that very precious stone,
The one every woman craves
To adorn her fingers with,
The shiny and yet reflective pearl
It takes a thousand spermatozoa
To race with the ovaries
To get to that one egg,
Yeah! To produce just one,
One special blood tie,
One special buddy
One special partner
The one you and I call sister,
Sisters are special
Kind, compassionate and supportive
They can get on our nerves sometimes,
Yet, they mean the world to us.
This is a shout out to all the
Great sisters out there.

THE GIANTs winning strategies

Everyone is an entrepreneur! The difference is in strategies and administration. Tips from the world’s best business men and women.

The Power Within

Winning strategies from FORBE’s entrepreneurs, we can only apply what we know to achieve what we want, study this piece to buy the wisdom of success.

1.) Have a Unique Perspective on Risk
This one seems like a no-brainer. What other segment of society is willing to step out with crazy ideas like entrepreneurs? But here is the deal for those of you on the fence — get your tail off it. According to the report, “a majority of entrepreneurs indicate they believe entrepreneurs are born — not made”.

So see? You were born to do this. But you have to take a risk and start. You have zero — repeat zero — chance of winning the game if you’re not in it. Dreaming of one day winning the Entrepreneur of the Year award? Good luck unless you change your perspective on risk. Starting today.

2.) Instill Passion in Great…

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It’s become glaring that things won’t change, at least not now, as the prices are skyrocketing with no traces of the force of gravity ale to pull them down, my people are no longer smiling talk-less of a good laugh, all hands are now on deck, now! we know mindset needs thorough cleansing from all them garbage dumped on it by our corrupt   society that has promoted luxury and mediocrity, discarding diligence, handwork, skills and self improvement through its nefarious acts of ingenuity and malpractice.

Who is to blame?

like Omawumi would sing, “if you ask me, na who i go ask… the matter wey you see so….” well your guess is as good as mine.

we can not like babies continue to blame the government, our parents, the society and all but ourselves, you are the problem, yes ! you.

you have got brains to think, you can begin by doing just one right thing so well to impact that place where you are positioned, but nope, you need the government to sweet the front of your house, wash your plates after eating and even cook and serve you the food, oya nau, that will only be done in your dreams.

This is a call to wake you up, get up! think differently and think out of the box, times are fast changing, how prepared are you for the new era of productivity, excellence, perfection and grace?

complaining and our public debates/ argument has changed nothing. let us all stand today in unity to bring clarity to the opaqued dream of wealth and freedom,peace and unity, one Nigeria and one love that would keep us together.

ARISE MY PEOPLE LETS ALL WORK TO MAKE OUR COUNTRY GREAT!YES WE CAN.

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Thought Pattern

Been off for a while and I apologise!!!

Today will be discussing o thinking pattern. Enjoy :

Power of thoughts.‘Life is shit’ Thinking pattern and it’s damages”.

Everything in life is bad, everybody is not to be trusted and nothing good will ever happen to them e.g. “I won’t get that job, the interviewer didn’t like me, I didn’t particularly like them anyway.”
‘Unsubstantiated conclusive’ Thinking pattern
You tend to make a lot of conclusions without any evidence to back up your conclusions. This can be a really destructive pattern as it can limit you in seeing reality for what it is e.g. “He walks a bit funny, he must be gay.” (I actually heard someone saying this about a colleague last week).
‘Never to me’ Thinking pattern
This is when you think nothing good will ever happen to you. This can be a deep seated way of thinking and it is a deep down inability to believe you are worthy of anything good happening to you e.g. “I’ll never have money, I’ve never had it before so I’ll never have it in the future, might as well carry on with this yeye job, at least it pays some bills sha.”
The negative ” I can read mind”Thinking pattern
Presuming you know what people are thinking about you and it’s all bad. e.g. “She thinks I’m ugly, I’ll try to avoid talking to her.”
Negative Emotion based’ Thinking pattern
Your emotions control what you are thinking and therefore your vision of what reality is e.g. “I feel incapable of doing that so I must be incapable”.
It’s all my fault’ Thinking pattern
You see yourself as being the cause of everything bad that has happened e.g. “It’s my fault he left me for another woman.” You’ll notice this type of person does not take responsibility for the good things that happen. It’s good to take blame when wrong and work to fix it but this type of person takes blame even when she or he has done nothing wrong, e.g it’s raining today, this my head sha, now I will get to the venue wet and in a mess, I can’t get the job.
They’re all wrong’ Thinking pattern
You see everyone as incapable of doing anything right and your way is the best way to do it e.g. “He can’t do it right, I’ll stay late tonight and fix it when he’s gone.”( Mr n Mrs know all) you will then find out only dummies will be your follower. Laughing

How to change the destructive thinking patterns

The first stage of changing is to recognise the problem – You will find a lot of people in life who just don’t think there is a problem so there is no need to change. If this is you then do nothing. If you want to change you must think there is a need and you will start to recognise what things need to change and it usually starts with your perception of life. Everybody’s perception of life is different, therefore everyone’s reality is different. I don’t live in the same world as you and you don’t live in the same world as me. That might sound a strange concept to some people, but think about it for a few minutes, it could change the way you see the world. I’ll give you an example:

E.g, when I was single I always said I can turn a poor person to a wealthy person, educated or not, and somehow I noticed I was attracting broke friends, every time I would be counseling them on what they can do to make money, some will be like but no money to start, I will say believe and just start telling people what you do and sincerely as at last year unknown toe I had produced 5 millionaires from about 9 friends who lived with me, was appreciated by them and one even went to her church to testify and mentioned me. I look back and said haba God do for me what you have done through me for my friends Nd He said to me your thoughts were focused on blessing them not yourself. So make sure your positive thoughts are in all areas of life, don’t let any aspect starve.
The second stage is to be aware of when you are using the destructive thinking patterns – We can employ different thinking patterns depending on what we are doing in life. For example you could use a positive thinking pattern at work as you are very confident in your ability and yet use a destructive one when it comes to looking for love.
The third stage is to replace the bad with the good – This is something that you don’t do immediately. You don’t say to yourself ‘I’ll never be able to do that”, which is you old thinking pattern, to “Oh yes I can”. That won’t work. You have to let the old pattern die slowly whilst slowly introducing your new improved thinking pattern. E.g when you see two love birds happy and having fun.. don’t say in ur mind ” hmmm let watch and see how this will end, is this love real, na wa o, just say in ur mind ” I like what I see, Someday I too will be happy with my man for others to admire”.
To recap

To change your thinking pattern you have to

Recognise
Be aware
Slowly change and introduce a new thinking pattern
Keep working on all your destructive thinking patterns
Change your life with your new way of thinking.
Daily confession, I Princess Adegbite is a blessing to the world, I love who I am, I impact me generation positively, I am a good wife to my husband, I do him proud and because of me he is the Richest amongst his peers, I love my siblings, I am a blessing to them and my generation, I enjoy the good of the land and I am gorgeous. Wink. In the end I make heaven not only by works but by grace Amen. U can copy and just put ur name where mine is or create ur own. Thanks all

MTN REFUND MY MB!!!

I have an habit, whether bad or good, that’s for you to decide, when I purchase a product that I like, if it’s cloth I keep safe in my box and most times never get to wear until it’s outdated or out of vogue, you know why? Cos I like it and just don’t want to waste, so I keep waiting for that perfect occasion, which sometimes comes many times and leaves without me noticing for that particular piece of item is just too dear for every occasion, then in the end, I give it out to someone without having to wear it at all, I am a brand loyalist, when I like a brand, I stick to it, even when it no longer serves me, I just believe that, that particular brand is the best and can do no wrong, don’t even try selling another to me, cos I won’t even listen how much more consider trying the new brand, now! Why am I writing this?
Statistically speaking, in terms of revenue generation and comparison to other network operators in the country, MTN Nigeria is one network that has made its mark in the Nigerian market. For many who don’t know, MTN is a South African company. They came into Nigeria on May 16, 2001 but was launched in August of the same year. It was the first GSM network to make calls after the globally lauded GSM auction was conducted by the Nigerian Communications Commission. Since then, there soar has known no bounds. They have establish and covered there grounds here in Nigeria. Created more and competitive packages than any other network operators within the country( my blinded argument though) turned there network into a Caliburn ( the legendary sword of King Arthur, sometimes attributed with magical powers ) and have managed not just to stay atop because of the likes of me despite ripping us off our hard earned cash. also scaling through all rules and regulations of the monitoring body, the NCC. Until they recently defaulted in the area of Sim registration which was the only time I got a bonus, so that I left the comfort of my house at 9pm to go to their outlet to re- register on Allen Avenue.

The Nigerian government and its people right from the initial stage, have provided MTN Nigeria with true cooperations, opened up the market for them, subscribed to their network with high loyalty and lots more. Few years ago they celebrated there 10 years anniversary. Ten (10) years of unending flow of income into there accounts which they send back to there home country, 10 years of successive cheating on Nigeria and Nigerians, 10 years of providing epileptic network services to the Nigerian people despite there loyalty, 10 years of not contributing meaningfully to the development of the country they make there money from etc.

Over the years, Nigerians have complained bitterly to the responsible authorities like the Nigerian Communications Commission, the Consumer Protection Council etc., about the poor network services provided them by MTN and high tariff charged but they kept saying no one has come up with prove of poor network. Yeye dey smell.

If MTN Nigeria were to be judged on the metrics of network availability (including all coverage areas), network quality (call success rate, call clarity etc), data quality, customer services, corporate social responsibility, tariff, and products, then myself alone might not be able to realistically do justice to that. I will allow you to decide by liking and sharing this piece. The number of likes and share could be the prove the regulatory body needs to work with on this matter. Thank you.
I am really Vexed by MTN but guess what?
I am still their loyalist, you see how we don’t really help ourselves sometimes.
Princesswealth

My Class mates.

Being an African, an indigenous Nigerian

Born an raised in Lagos, still an inhabitant of the state, means I still have to fill the water container, which enables us to store up water for use, even when the electricity goes off.

Being an African, an indigenous Nigerian,

Born and raised to love people, irrespective of their colour or race, means I enjoy moments spent with chatting or exchanging ideas via blogging 101, The Commons is what we call it.

Being me, Princess Adegbite as my name clearly speaks, has taught me to appreciate all and sundry, for in you! Yes you reading this piece, I see light, rays of hope, that someday,love will genuinely conquer hate, wealth will conquer lack and friendship will conquer enmity, that together we can reach each other and be a source of joy, inspiration, peace and above all love.

This is my own little piece, to say! For all your writing effort, you rock!

For your time out here, you rock!

For this moment, you rock.

Thank you for being my very own class mate.

A PERSONAL PIECE.

“Happiness is the art of never holding in your mind the memory of any unpleasant thing that has passed.”
Unknown

Men!!! Life can be tough at times and living even tougher but then to be alive and not live is the toughest of them all.
They say, when the going gets tough the tough keeps going, human beings were created to solve problems, reason the world itself is full of them, today, I write for you, the one reading this post, because this is one fresh opportunity to remind you of what your purpose on earth is, most of us get so carried away chasing money, material wealth that we forget to live.
For one to live, you need to understand what living is to you, to some it’s merely existing and depending on the government or system for everything, for some it’s dedicating their whole time to pursuing a dream or goal that they abandon those who matter most to them, for others they spend so much time with family/friends that they leave their earthly purpose to starve and suffer from malnutrition.
Remember, we are here only for a while, a few will live a 2score years, other 3 score years and for them whom the creator has shown magnitude of mercy they will do a 4score years and more,but in all the days spent, how many have you spent genuinely happy and fulfilled?
That’s a question only you can answer,creating a balance in our life will help us achieve more, for me, I find joy in each day knowing that no obstacle nor situation is able to take that from me, it’s my right, my possession, I own happiness like I own my car, it’s got my name stamped and written on it, for I know my happiness is far above the reach of all life challenges, I know it’s deeper than the sea and right inside my soul, where only me and myself and I(very persona) has a right to swim, a happy mind, is a creative mind, a happy mind is a problem solving mind, a happy mind magnets lights of the universe to it, which illuminates even in the darkest of nights, just like me, you have a right to own your happiness, you can decide to smile even when you feel the tears on your cheek, you can own it and make it yours at all time, for the problems are what we make of them, belittle it and match them into mince meat and you will be shocked, how easily you defeat them.
Life is sweet but no one can prove that to you asides yourself, I write this personal piece to you today, because I care, as I breath in and exhale, so do you and guess what? We are all linked through the universe, it doesn’t matter your race,tribe nor location.
I am human and so are you, you feel and so do I, I don’t need to know you on a physical level before I can reach out with a hand of love, all I need is the universe to link us together, today I take out this time to say to you ” I love you”.
Yippee! I feel so good, yea! Letting that out to you this moment has healed the pain of carrying so much un-shared kind words, you rock and I hope that in the midst of all life challenges, you find time to say ” I love you” to that one person that matters in your life too.
Princesswealth

Doing Me.

I joined blogging 101 because I desire fresh knowledge on blogging and needed to learn better ways to communicate my ideas to the world, I believe we are all linked through the universe and it’s products such as good music, writing, poetry, drama, fashion and others and I believe we are able to buy others people’s knowledge through interactions, I started blogging last year on motivations and inputting a bit of real life situations to my piece to help people relate more to my heart felt message with conveys a lot about my person and purpose. I just finished following new blogs, gone through the readers and about to go into the commons to follow cobloggers, I am having so much fun doing me, I hope you are too? <a class=”wordpress-follow-button” href=”https://princessadegbite.wordpress.com&#8221; data-blog=”https://princessadegbite.wordpress.com&#8221;

STRICTLY FOR YOU.

She sat on a couch within the walls of her aged parents home, looking very hopeless as she could do nothing to help her dying mom, tears rolled down her cheek dropping on the neck line of her Ankara(Nigerian fabric) top, hmmm hmmm she breathed and made up her mind to stand up, for she had cried all night and morning, it was noon and she knew her cry had no power to change her situation, she stood up, wiped her face and walked out of the room, in the living room she found a book lying on the desk, that book had been there for ages but something about the book pulled her close, close enough to read what was written with a pen on the cover, the sentence was ” life is a decision, what you face, you can conquer for there’s a power within, able to conquer your pain”.

Wow! Her face lit up with so much light, suddenly there was hope, she walked straight to where her dying mom was laying and laid her hands on mom, saying ” leave even if only for 365 days, for within these days, I will give you the best and then you can depart the earth knowing that your girl, now a grown lady has made you happy”

She said those words with so much faith that she felt something move within her heart, sh left the house in search of food and money, to her chagrin…her phone rang and it was Mr Kene, is the C.E.O of UMUKENE oil and gas firm, she had gone to him to sponsor her television programme but he turned her down, she visited his office weekly but all to no avail, then at the moment she made up her mind to live despite all odds and challenges, the moment she chose to fight from within herself, using all power available within, Mr Kene the wealthiest man in her town called…

The call ;Mr Kene : hello (Igbo accent)

Lady: good afternoon sir, to what do I owe this call sir?

Mr Kene: laughs, well! You are a persistent young lady, I went through your proposal and I sort of like it, can you com to my office by 2pm?

Lady: sure! See you soon sir.

That was the call, the moment that changed her live, her mother lived for exactly 356 days and enjoyed a good life as daughter could now afford those good things of life she had always desired.

The Power within is embedded in the inner self, reason we all need high dose of who we are in the spirit just as we need to understand our physical world, the inner self controls the outer self, we all have powers to change our world, life and financial status, that is why I am here, to help you discover the hidden you and expose you to the POWER WITHIN. Hence the title of my page.

Thank you

Princesswealth